TWO OF WANDS – ást

The Two of Wands in love brings a decision about the future.

A relationship has reached a point where you need to decide where to go next. Not because there's a problem – but because what has been built so far is now asking a question. Will it stay this way? Or will we move forward?

One wand is affixed to the wall. It represents routine, comfort, the current state. The other is in your hand: opportunity. The card asks if you will let go of the wall.

If you are in a relationship, this card often indicates moving in together, engagement, common plans – something that declares you are thinking long-term.

If you are single, it invites you to look further. Don't plan the next date, but rather the life you desire. Someone who knows what they want won't get lost in the details.

Its shadow: procrastination. When a relationship has been stuck in the same place for years because neither of you dares to say you want to move forward.

The angels send a message: talk about the future.

Not about the weekend. About where you want to be five years from now, and if that's the same place. This isn't a romantic conversation, but it determines everything else.

Dare to ask for big things. If you want more from the relationship, say it. Most people don't get it not because they don't deserve it – but because they never asked for it.

Don't get stuck in comfort. Sometimes a relationship isn't bad, it just stands still. And standing still slowly becomes death.

If you are alone: define what you want. Specifically. Not a list about the other person – a picture of the life you want to live.

And if the cards are turned the other way: if you're afraid to decide; if you're putting off the conversation; if you've gotten used to uncertainty – ask yourself, for how much longer. Waiting is also a decision.