SIX OF WANDS – mīlestība

The Six of Wands in love brings appreciation and pride.

Sometimes a relationship isn't beautiful because it's passionate, but because you are proud of each other. This card brings that: the kind of love where someone looks upon you with favor.

If you are in a relationship, a success or good news can strengthen your bond. Joy experienced together connects you just as much as hardships overcome together – we just talk about it less.

If you are single, this card is about your self-confidence. A person who knows their worth radiates a different energy. Not boastfulness – but calm. And that is attractive.

The card also reminds you: tell each other. Appreciation that you don't express doesn't exist for the other person.

Its shadow: delayed recognition. When someone does everything, and no one ever says they see it.

The angels send this message: allow yourself to be loved – and show that you love in return.

This card is about the importance of appreciation being visible. Many people think, "he knows I love him." He doesn't know. Or he knows, but it would still feel good to hear it.

If you have a partner, tell them something today that you are proud of them for. Specifically, not generally. Relationships are not sustained by grand gestures, but by such sentences.

And accept what they give you. If they praise you, don't brush it off. "Oh, it's nothing" is a small sentence, but it destroys a lot: it conveys that what they see in you is not true.

If you are alone: you are carrying yourself well now, and it shows. Don't search frantically. Many people find someone under this card precisely because they weren't looking – a person who is well-settled in their own life is the most attractive.

But remember: the wreath withers. Don't live off of being admired. Admiration is fleeting, but attention can be built. One is a gift, the other is a choice.

If the card appears in reverse: if you don't feel appreciated, if you feel like you give everything, if you are not noticed – don't wait for them to realize it on their own. Simply state it, about yourself: "it would feel good if you would say this sometimes." That is usually enough.