ȘASE DE MONEDE – dragoste

In love, the Six of Pentacles is the card of the scales.

Who gives, and who receives? And for how long has the answer been the same?

Look at the image: a person stands, holding scales, and gives – the other two are kneeling. This card is beautiful on the outside. Delicate on the inside.

Because in love, giving is good if you also remain standing afterward. Someone who gives everything will be empty in half a year, and then will believe they are weak. Not weak. Just didn't measure.

If you are the one who always gives: love will sooner or later become an invoice. You don't want it, it didn't start this way, but at some point, you'll list in your mind what you've done for them. This is the sign that the scales have tipped – not that you're tired, but that the list has appeared.

If you are the one who receives: pay attention to the kneeling. If someone gives you something and then always brings it up, it's not a gift. It's a chain. Good giving is invisible and doesn't ask for gratitude in return. And notice: kneeling is not humiliation – you just feel it that way. Someone who never accepts anything deprives the other of the joy of giving.

And the light of the card: love is not a stock, but a flow. Today you give, a year ago you knelt, in two years you will again. This is normal – the problem is only if the answer to who gives has been the same for a decade.

Tip the scales back. If you always give: ask for something today. If you always receive: give something, however little.

You always give.

I don't say this as a compliment. Just as an observation, because perhaps you don't even notice it anymore. You notice what is needed. You yield. You adapt. You are the one who tries one more time.

Look at the card. A person stands, a scale in one hand, dropping coins into the hand of a kneeling person with the other.

And now observe the scale. They are not scattering what they have. They are measuring.

This is your message tonight. This card is not about immeasurable love, but about giving that has measure. Because giving is good when you also remain standing afterwards. Someone who gives everything will be empty in half a year – and then they will think of themselves as weak. Not weak. Just didn't measure.

There is a sign by which you will know exactly that the scale has tipped: if you start listing in your head what you have done for them. You didn't want to, it didn't start that way. But if the list appears, then love has become a bill.

Tonight, ask for something. One single thing, from them. Not because you are in need. But because someone who never accepts anything deprives the other of the joy of giving. That is not love either – that is also pride.

And if you are the one who is now receiving: look at the picture, how the other is kneeling. If someone gives you something and then brings it up later, it's not a gift. It's a chain. Good giving is invisible.

Love is not a stock. It's a flow. Today you give, a year ago you knelt, in two years you will again.

Just don't let the answer to who gives always be the same.